How many times have you said something only to find out the person you were speaking to didn't hear a word you said? Has it ever happened in any of your personal relationships? With your children? Work associates? Spouse? The list could go on and on. The following four steps will help you communicate better with those you come in contact with.

1. Make eye contact and always speak directly to the person.

2. Always avoid speaking in a monotone and speak clearly.

3. Always ask questions. Questions keep the listener involved.

4. Be brief and to the point. Use stories to illustrate, but don't ever stray off course.

Communication is the key to anything you do in life.